Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 10, 2012

another her birthday

10 oct was my only sister's birthday. betul kan when i told october is my favourite month? because surrounded with my loved one birthday..my best friend birthday, my sister birthday and counting days is my birthday..double yeay~!

my sister is 28 years old this year. already have 2 children..1 boy and 1 girl..such a happy family.

semoga dipanjangkan umur dan dimurahkan rezeki..may Allah bless you and your family always. :)

love you so much, sis.


one happy family ;)

lots of love,
Nima

Monday, August 6, 2012

welcome to the world, niece :)

on last 31st july, officially i got a new niece! my sister safely delivered the princess at 11.52 am at prince court medical center. i have to take emergency leave to take care of my nephew. my parents sent over my sister to the hospital after subuh after dia mengadu dia dah rasa sakit.

finally the princess is out from ibu's tummy.

hello princess, open your eyes..it's mak ngah here!

lots of love,
Nima

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

quickie!

It has been soooo long tak update kan this blog..Dah bersawang dah. Busy with our new family member! Yup, my sister was giving a birth on 10th Nov 2010. The cute baby named, Muhammad Amsyar. So lovely. For 4 days, she was in hospital and came back home and needed to warded back due to the baby is having very high kuning. Sampai raya haji pun raya kat hospital.

Introducing...

Muhammad Amsyar


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Friday, November 5, 2010

after 18 days

This entry will be long. no pictures! be patient ya!

It's already 18 days I undergo operation. Major operation I should say. As stated in this post. I need to remove the cyst on my left ovary. Alhamdulillah, I'm recovering now. Still sakit jugak especially bila tempat operate tu berdenyut. Tak boleh nak buat kerja berat sangat. Makan still kena pantang. Nak jalan pun takleh laju lagi.

I did my operation at Gleneagles Hospital, with Dr. Michael Samy, the same gynae with my sister. He is very kind and supportive. My parents accompanied me to hospital on Monday,18th Oct 2010. My parents asked all my siblings to go with work and college as usual. After settled with registration around 10.30 am, we needed to wait to get the booking room. All single room in Gleneagles is fully booked! Luckily, I asked a favor from my cousin GF to book a room for me a week earlier. Thank you Eaton!! Really appreciate it. The hospital's staff guided us to the room. 305, ward 3A. Then, the staff nurse at Ward 3A, took my weight and height. They gave me the hospital cloth to change.

My operation was scheduled at 2.00 pm and I have been fasting from 12.00 am without any drinks and food. They asked for urine and blood. Bercerita tentang darah. There were a few incident happened during that time. My en. tunang reached hospital around 1130 am and took branch with my parents. He was on leave.I was left alone in the room. The staff nurse came to shave the related area before the operation and gave me the medicine to pass motion (buang air besar) to ensure my stomach is empty during the operation.

Ambil darah?? Yes, they needed 3 tubes of my blood before the operation to ensure whether I'm alergic to certain medicine or not. First time, the staff nurse cari urat on my left. She said that my urat tak berapa nampak. Then, dia tengok my right hand and said that urat is better. Lepas dia cucuk that picagari tu, tengok-tengok my darah tak cukup for 3 tubes. Only 2 tubes. Then another nurse datang, dia took for another tube from my left hand. 1.30 pm, the first nurse that took my blood said, that the 2 tubes of my blood was clogged and lab tak sempat nak test it. So, they needed to take another around! OMG. Berserah gila. Then, the third nurse datang, try nak ambil darah at area pergelangan kiri tu, after jarum dah masuk, tak dapat jugak because of my urat tu bengkok. Then, they said to me that, they will take my blood during the operation nanti.

5 minutes before 2.00 pm, the staff nurse came to my room and asked me the repetition question like any alergic to medicine, has been fasting from when and etc They pushed the bed out from my room to the operation theate (OT) at level 1. They used the different lift from usual which can cater the bed in it. Masa tengah tolak tu, airmata dah bergenang dah. Takut sangat! Bermacam-macam in my head. Even though, the operation is not dangerous but still macam-macam fikir. Hidup lagi ke after operation. Looking at my parents face and my en. tunang face lagi rasa sebak. Serious. Before entered the OT, salam and peluk my parents. Then, they pushed me into the OT. Pintu tu automatic and there are space at the door yang boleh nampak luar. I can see mama  and en. tunang tengok from outside. Ayah tak tengok pun, but I know dia pun risau but he did not want to show that he's worried. The OT staff gave me like the shower cap to keep my hair inside, and they were asking the same question. While waiting for the OT 3, to get ready, I just lying on my bed and tengok pintu tu terbuka tertutup. Nampak en. tunang is waiting patiently there. There is no smile pun on his face. I just waved to him before the door closed again and he waved back with senyuman terpaksa.

Then, pakar bius, Dr. Santiago came to me, asked the same question and asked me to sign the acceptance letter to proceed with operation. Dr. Michael Samy is also there, giving me support, telling me that the operation will be fine. He will do the operation on me. Entered the OT 3, mama dah pesan suruh tutup mata. Jangan tengok OT. Tapi I think, bila lagi nak tengok OT kan, selalu tengok dalam TV je, now I have the opportunity to see it live! I saw the lampu, the electronics, macam-macam lagi. Tak percaya I'm in OT! To start the operation, the pakar bius, Dr. Santiago said that they will do one injection on my left hand, ACG and I will have a very long sleep after that. After one injection, they put something at my jari telunjuk to monitor my heart beat, and they gave me oxygen, then I dozed off. It was a full bius.

Awake from the long sleep, ingat mula-mula the operation is not over but the nurse told me that the operation is over. Rasa sakit and I realised that I have been operated!! I told nurse that I want to pee, but she said it's ok. They have put tube into my pundi kencing and automatically the urine will straight go into the provided bag. Then, I asked the time, it's already 3.50 pm. After a few minutes, I said that I'm hurt. The nurse gave me pain killer that masuk through darah. I slept back and sedar balik when the nurse at ward 3A took me back to my room. I can hear my mama's voice. She's calling my name and tampar-tampar me to ensure I have already awaken.

I can see my parents, and en. tunang there. I slept again and just woke up when mama kejut saying that mak ngah, pak ngah and izam came. First time, I wanted to talk but it's very sakit. But, gagahkan jugak. Mama tanya kenapa tak nak cakap, I said that I'm in pain. After operation, the staff nurse came to me and said that they tak sempat ambil darah during the operation. I just nodded. Tak larat nak cakap. My dad asked en. tunang and izam to fetch my sister at KLCC and buy dinner at pelita. Around 6.00 pm, cydee, anis, dibah and sya came visited me. Then asil pun datang around the same time. Thank you for coming my dearest. After maghrib, my sister arrived with en. tunang and izam. Boy pun datang after that. Then, abang ayih, kak sha, mak kak sha and little cute dhanie also came. Seeing dhanie, just make me smile. He's look at me and smile. This 6 months baby is so adorable. Then nieja and nadiah also came. Abg pejal, kak mas,khadijah and naufal also came to visit me.Thank you all for coming. I can't entertain much. Kejap-kejap tertidur, then loya. Maybe the affect from the bius. Ayah kejutkan me from sleep when en. tunang wanted to go back. Ayah sat beside me and cakap " Ima, bangun.Faizul dah nak balik". Owh, thank you for the fruits, biscuits and buah tangan ek. Buat susah-susah aje.

Nurse came to my room and tegur that I need to rest. Don't talk too much, u just did an operation. U need to rest. Thank you nurse. Noted. :)

After everyone has gone back, just left me and mama. Mama temankan during my stay at the hospital. We rented a bed for her own comfy. I tried to sleep that night, I slept and after a few hours awake and loya. Asked mama to ask for ubat tahan muntah, I don't want to throw out because mesti sakit kat tempat operation tu. Panjang operation tu is about 7cm, melintang. Then mama, gosok-gosok my dahi until tertidur balik. Then, every time  the nurse tukar air that contained the pain killer inside it, I will rasa loya.

Sleep until morning and realised that en. tunang came with mama punya breakfast. He came early in the morning, and around 8.30 am, he left to the office. 9.00 am, Michael Samy's nurse came to visit me. Around 10.00 am, Eaton also came to visit me. The staff nurse, datang untuk lap my badan. I can't move lagi. The drip is still there. She helped me in changing into new clothes. Thank you so much. Later in the noon, ayah came to the hospital. Bought lunch for mama. Mama's friend, aunty Sharifah came to visit me in the noon. Thank you for coming aunty. She is also one of Michael Samy patient. My sister came after her office hour and my two brothers came after maghrib with dinner. Dr. Michael Samy came to me and I said that I' m hungry. It has been more than 36 hours I have been fasiting! and Dr. gave green light to take sup and porridge. That's my first time eating after almost 2 days I'm fasting. He asked me how's the pain and ada fart  (kentut) ke tak. I still did not. En. tunang pun datang around 8.00 pm from Bukit Jalil. Then, around 9.30 pm, they went back and we back as two. Owh, I received one basket of fruits together with flower beside it. From aunty bi. Thank you!

Early in the morning 5.00 am, the staff nurse came to take out the tube from my pundi kencing. She asked me to tarik nafas dalam-dalam and hembus as she pull out the tube. Buang tube je terus I fart. Then, arund 6.30 am, I felt like want to pee. This time, I need to walk and turun from bed. First time berdiri after 2 days baring, it's so difficult. Dizzy of course and need to expect the pain. Then around 7.30 am, another one round. Can you imagine, the water drip is still there and of course rasa nak terkencing je. En tunang arrived as usual and brought breakfast for mama. This time is mee goreng campur mihun goreng. I just can eat porridge for the time being. Excused himself to go to office. I continued with sleep. So do mama. The staff nurse came and it's lap time! Third day, I can walked and nurse lap me in the toilet. I sat on the chair and she lap. Mak ngah came with pak ngah  to visit me and brought mama lunch. Ayah will be coming with Izam after lunch. Around 11.00 am, kawan mama, aunty bi, aunty ros and aunty asiah came to visit me. They are so lovely. :) Thank you for coming aunties! Then, later in noon, Dr. Michael came together with the cyst. He showed me the cyst. Geli tengok. Dia korek-korek kat dalam tu and there still ada darah sikit-sikit in it. He said that is confirm an endometriosis. Luckily, we did the operation. On my right ovary also dah start ada. He has burnt it during the operation.

The drip has been taken out from my hand and felt so comfortable. Alhamdullilah..Around 1.30 pm, en. tunang came with abg jep, kak mudah and sakilah. Thank you for coming ya! and thank you for the chocolate! After zohor, mak ngah went back and ayah came together with Izam after asar. They bought nasi ayam! Sedapnya..Datang and just lepaking aje. My sister and my brother came after work. Semua berkampung at the hospital. En. tunang pun datang after work. Mesti penat kan. Pija texted me, and said she will be coming to the hospital with her BF at night. She arrived around 9.00 pm and 30 minutes later Nieja also came. Pija excused herself to go back, we continued talking. Around 10.30 pm, we back to only 2. Third night at he hospital, I can slept well. Just woke up during ubat time.

Monday, October 4, 2010

meeting families

Bring your loved one meeting family members of yours is the moment to treasure. Look at their behavior, how your family react, how they mingle around will make you smile even though you are alone.It happened to me on last Saturday and Sunday.

After finished some urusan at Jalan TAR that noon, we headed to Putrajaya because my cousin, abg pejal invited us to have a yassin and also an open house at their new house. The event, started at 3.00 pm, but left Jalan TAR around 12.00 noon, and we decided to jalan-jalan at Alamanda. Then, 2.30 pm departed from Alamanda to P11. Not familiar with Putrajaya, we decided to follow the sign board and finally we arrived.

When we reached there, just mak ngah and pak ngah je yang ada. My family tak sampai lagi. They stuck in traffic jam and they asked us to start the event without them. Without any further delay, we started the event with yassin recite and doa selamat. Settled with that, we ate and chit chat. My en. tunang malu agaknya, but still can sit along and talk with my cousin. 15 minutes later, my family arrived and that house jadi meriah. ;). I just observed from far how my en tunang, and tengok dia ok je. My en tunang sat together with my family, and we gelak-gelak je. Alhamdullilah, it's a good start.

After spent 2 hours at Putrajaya, me myself and en tunang asked for permission to leave, because we have another mission to accomplish. Plan nak g mid valley, but tengok jalan jam and then we changed our mind to go to KLCC. My en tunang suka tengok exhibition about home deco, and bila dia tengok yang dia berkenan, he will start berangan here and there. Looking at him macam tu, makes me smile, because I know he is happy. =)

After performed maghrib, we decided to have our dinner, and he suggested makan nasi ayam kat Bukit Bintang. Went out from KLCC and arrived at Sungei Wang. We walked all the way from Sungei Wang to the Chee Meng nasi ayam. Sedap! Lamanya tak makan.We used to have our lunch at Kampung Pandan eating that nasi ayam and wantan goreng.

Then, my en. tunang sent me home and we called it a day. Can't wait for tomorrow.

Later on Sunday, I invited my en tunang to my Long's house at KGSAAS. Arrived at my Long's house, can see my uda and family, ucu and family and also long and family is there. I'm so excited to see them. I introduced my en. tunang to them. Sorry ye if i called you "Pakcik" ye en. tunang in front of my uncles and aunties. Just don't want it to be too formal. Before we left, sempat jumpa my unggal and wife. They just arrived.

After Long's house, we headed to Kota Kemuning, to one of en. tunang cousin, Kak Naemah. Turun-turn je kereta, Kak Naemah cakap, makin berseri bakal pengantin nie ye.. *Opss malu kejap. En tunang, sila jangan jeles* My sister and her husband, are also following us. It's my pleasure to bring them together. Spending about an hour at rumah Kak Naemah, we bid goodbye to them. Thank you for the invitation! Along the journey, my en. tunang asyik bersembang aje with my abg ipar, yang buat my sister and I borak sesama sendiri. Sabar jela.

Reached home, en. tunang performed zohor and asar before we left for a movie at wangsa walk. En. tunang took the house key from the table and opened the grill by himself. Then I said to him, "Wah, buat macam rumah sendiri nampak" and mama  said " Yela, kena la practice." One big smile hinggap on my lips.

I decided to have the EAT PRAY LOVE as our catch of the day. Biasa je that movie. My en. tunang sempat lagi nak tido kan dalam wayang. ceyh!! Movie finished at 7.20 pm, and I decided to go straight to Restoran Ali Maju at Sri Rampai to join my family dinner there. My en. tunang and I reached there first and waited patiently for my family. After 15 minutes, they arrived and we ordered. Sambil makan and borak ,then ada satu phrase yang my ayah cakap, and buat I senyap and I smile. He started to feel that his family is almost complete. I love the atmosphere, and hope it will remain happily ever after.

Clock showed 9.00 pm, and the mee goreng ayam we ordered for tapow tak siap lagi. I asked my parents and my sister to go back first while I'm waiting for the mee. Izam also volunteered to company me and en. tunang.

Hope you are having fun spending your time with my family, because I really love your presence with us. =)

Monday, June 14, 2010

alhamdulliah

First day of Rejab, first day officially as a someone fiance. alhamdullilah, i feel blessed! Saje nak amik berkat, puasa 1 Rejab plus with annual leave, seronoknya..hehe..

on 13th June 2010, at 11.30 am, i'm officially faizul's fiance. tak sangkanye i will engage with someone that yang baru kenal around 1 year..jodoh kan..his mom sarungkan cincin merisik and cincin tunang to my jari manis kiri and kanan. =))

my day started as i woke up at 6.15 am as asyik terjaga from my sleep dari pukul 5 am. dahla i slept at 2 am, and pukul 5 pagi dah terjaga.golek punya golek. terlena kejap. then heard azan subuh. tapi still tutup mata sebab nak tunggu alarm bunyi which is pukul 6.30 am..tapi tak tahan nak golek-golek atas katil, then 6.15 am terus solat and kemas bilik. turun bawah, then niat di hati nak tolong kemaskan meja because we need to put kerusi meja for kenduri tu sendiri.tapi mama suruh breakfast dulu. while having my breakfast, i received SMS from kak yong (jurumekap) that she is on her way to my house. clock showed 7.30 am. alamaknya awalnya..

after finish breakfast, i took my bath and waiting for kak yong to arrive. she arrived around 8.15 am, and i invited her for breakfast. she brought along her adik ipar, fara. kak yong is really kind and fun to talk with. fara is a little bit shy. senyap je dia.

then, around 8.50 am, kak yong started her job to conteng my muka. while my face kena conteng by her, i received sms and phone calls from friends.wishing me and congratulate.thank you for the wishes and prayers.

the photographer arrived around 10.00 am. my abg ipar asked me whether wanted the photographer to take my picture during make up. i said just wait until i finished make up and wore my selendang. finally, i decided to wear the white jubah together with the 3 serangkai kerongsang. i felt great wearing that! just a simple dress, an unique shawl and beautiful of hand bouquet. rasa macam princess! *sila jangan muntah, lagipun it's my day*

10.20 am, nadiah and nieja came!! finally! at least ada jugak kawan yang datang. at least both of them made my day!! thank you.

10.30 am, faizul called, asking dah boleh datang ke belum sebab derang dah dekat dah...alamak, my unggal which is jurucakap pun tak sampai lagi. i asked him to wait kejap until 11.00 am, sebab janji pukul 11.00 am. pastu mama naik to my room,saje nak tengok how's everything..then, my sister pulak naik, i asked my sister ramai orang tak. she said tak ramai lagi. hati dah sedih. but, it's ok, maybe it's still early.i mms fifi, lenot and najwa a picture of me while waiting for the sarung cincin punya session. ayu, gorgeous are their words. i like!

then, around 11.05 am, faizul called, cakap everyone dah masuk to my house. rombongan dia dah sampai! alamak..dup dap..nervous!! tunggu punya tunggu, then my abang ipar, panggil suruh turun. OMG! pastu my beloved sister, escort bawa turun bawah together with nieja and nadiah. masa kat tangga, dia cakap, atak pulak yang berdebar. hehe..lalu in front of my unggal, sempat lagi dia mengusik, "amboi comelnya anak saudara aku nie", sempat lagi senyum kat unggal.

time nak jalan ke kerusi, sempat jeling kat hantaran. cantik hantaran from his side, silver and hitam. =)) derang bagi 8 dulang. it should be 5. tapi sebab ramai orang nak bagi buat hantaran. dia terima je rezeki...alhamdullilah..

then, his mom came to me, to sarungkan cincin. officially. finally, the time is arrived. settle with everything, salam his mom, and then i salam the whole guests yang datang. ramai jugak. penuh rumah. alhamdullilah..

time to eat!! berdiri depan pintu, and i saw mr. fiance looking sweet in his purple baju melayu and samping. not to forget the songkok. tersenyum lebar je dia. =))

before they left, we snapped a few pictures together with hantaran and family. thank you for coming to all. really appreciate it. i smiled along the day, thinking it's my day and why should i think about others matters which will make me sad.


to my family, mama, ayah, atak, abg nizam, and izam, thank you for make it happen. to boy, sowie ek tak tunggu boy balik. to mak ngah's family, thank you for helping out. to all aunties and uncles and sepupu, thank you sebab sudi datang and give support, i love all of you so much.. to all neighbours, a million thanks for coming..to nieja and nadiah, thank you sebab escort! =p.thanks to mayon, sebab sudi datang walaupun baru sampai from kelantan pukul 11.. to izam friends', thank you sangat sebab tolong susun and atur the kerusi meja..and tolong kemaskan..thanks to kak yong for the make up..thank you along for the pictures! edit cantik-cantik!! thank you to reen, imran, danial and shahir for coming..happy nampak korang..and a special thanks to my fiance family, thank you for the rombongan, and hoping that bakal kedatangan nima into the family akan direstui and diterima..and to my beloved fiance, nima just boleh senyum dengan lebar because i'm too happy and i'm feeling great. alhamdullilah..

i felt satisfied, because all the hantaran, i did it by myself. with full of love. walaupun tak cantik mana. but, it comes from the bottom of my heart.

a day before, i did receive a phone call from lenot at night. thank you lenot for the thoughts. i chatted with fifi while i can't sleep felling nervous that night. she is really supportive. thank you my dear. i received a visit from pija and her siblings on saturday's evening. she can't attend on sunday, so she came on saturday. thank you so much! i really appreciate it so much. thank you to fifi, to text me during i'm so nervous at the morning. your words make me feel you were here with me..thank you cydee to call me pagi-pagi, wishing me and i'm so sorry for your lost, thank you for the care asking me about the preparation and everything..to dibah, thank you sebab message nima after balik offshore walaupun lambat, i really appreciate it. to najwa, the ceremony will be great if you were there! thank you for the care my dear. asking me how's the engagement went and everything. to kak nadia, kak intan and kak ima, thank you for the wishing! =))

to anis and sya, thank you for the message and phone call.